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I know the holidays means low or no sex for some couples. Often the husband wants to, but the wife is too busy. And sometimes they both want more sex, but they’re too tired to make it happen.
If you want to try to change that this year, ask your wife what you could do to make it possible to have a bit more sex. That could mean you putting the kids to bed or cancelling something. It might mean you finding a way to take things off her list.
One thing that will help is to define sex differently. Laying together and masturbating probably isn’t high on your list, but it’s better than nothing. You can also leave it open-ended when you start; if she gets into it, it’s for both of you. If exhaustion wins out, it’s just for you, and she decides how you finish.
Also consider a different time of day, especially if one or both of you is too tired at bedtime.
A discussion now could mean a jollier holiday season.
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