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Friday Flashback: Sitting Between Her Legs

by The Generous Husband | May 8, 2020 | Friday Flashback, Links to good stuff, Rethinking Sex, Sexuality, ZIMAGE

The first time you try this position it may take a bit of trial and error to get it right, but it’s well worth the effort. There is a doll image at the bottom of the page. In words, she is laying on her back, legs rolled out and wide apart. You are sitting between her legs, facing her, with her legs over or under your legs. Having your back to the headboard or wall will help, but is not absolutely necessary. Have her lay down after you’re in position, then hold her legs and pull gently to help her move close. You may need a pillow or two under your rear – it will depend on your relative sizes and the firmness of the mattress. Just getting the penis to her vagina is not enough; you need to get the right angle for any real penetration.

Her stimulation comes from one or both of you using hands or a toy on her. You won’t have deep penetration in this position – probably two inches less than with missionary – and vigorous thrusting is not possible, but there are a lot of great points to this.

When you enter shallow, the glans (head) of your penis is in the entry of her vagina – which is tighter than the rest of the vagina, and which constricts when she climaxes. The ring of muscle here will also transmit vibration if you are using a vibrator.
For you the view is fantastic. For her, it’s a face to face position, which most women prefer.
For most couples, this is mutually comfortable, and it’s possible to maintain it for a long time.
If you tend to climax quickly during intercourse, being still may allow you to last longer than usual. Penetrating deeply enough to get the glans past the ring of muscle at the entry to the vagina will help with this. If you do climax, you can continue to pleasure her without stopping or having to change position.
Because it can be done with no movement, this is good if you have a noisy bed and need to be quiet (like at someone else’s house!).
You can do this on a bed or on the floor (put down a towel) or a number of other places. You might even be able to do it in the bath (if you do that with water, use a silicone lube and make sure there are no soaps or other chemicals in the water).
If she has multiples, you can give her all she wants – and have yours whenever you both like.
If she does not normally climax during intercourse, this will allow her to have a climax while you’re in her.
This can also be done as foreplay (take your time!) or can be done until one of you climaxes, then move to another position or activity for the other person.

[This post first appeared February 05, 2011.]

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Sitting Between Her Legs

by The Generous Husband | Feb 5, 2011 | Rethinking Sex, Sexuality

When you enter shallow, the glans (head) of your penis is in the entry of her vagina – which is tighter than the rest of the vagina, and which constricts when she climaxes. The ring of muscle here will also transmit vibration if you are using a vibrator.
For you the view is fantastic. For her, it’s a face to face position, which most women prefer.
For most couples, this is mutually comfortable, and it’s possible to maintain it for a long time.
If you tend to climax quickly during intercourse, being still may allow you to last longer than usual. Penetrating deeply enough to get the glans past the ring of muscle at the entry to the vagina will help with this. If you do climax, you can continue to pleasure her without stopping or having to change position.
Because it can be done with no movement, this is good if you have a noisy bed and need to be quiet (like at someone else’s house!).
You can do this on a bed or on the floor (put down a towel) or a number of other places. You might even be able to do it in the bath (if you do that with water, use a silicone lube and make sure there are no soaps or other chemicals in the water).
If she has multiples, you can give her all she wants – and have yours whenever you both like.
If she does not normally climax during intercourse, this will allow her to have a climax while you’re in her.
This can also be done as foreplay (take your time!) or can be done until one of you climaxes, then move to another position or activity for the other person.

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Hovering Crab and Clock Face Positions

by The Generous Husband | Jun 19, 2010 | Series, Sexuality

Lists of sex positions often include things that Lori and I call “circus couple positions”. This is because they look like a free trip to the ER unless one person is a contortionist and the other is an acrobat!

Below are a couple of uncommon positions that have a lot to offer with no significant risk of injury. Please be aware these positions are visually shown by the use of “Barbie” type dolls painted pink and blue. Not overly erotic, but probably not something you want your five-year-old seeing.

The Hovering Crab

She is in a “crab walk” position, facing up with her arms and legs holding her up – but with several pillows under her body so her arms and legs aren’t taking much of her weight. Add or remove pillows to change her height. Put pillows under her head, or let her head hang down to the bed, depending on her preference (some claim having the head lower than the body results in better climax because there’s more blood in the brain). You can also play with the pillows to slope her body up or down. Note – be ready to help her stay on top of the pillows when she climaxes.

This position gives you exceptional access and comfort for performing manual or oral sex on your bride. You can sit between her legs with your legs stretched out either side of the pillows, or you can sit on your bent legs.

This position also allows for interesting intercourse. You can kneel with your knees apart and slightly under her legs. Entry may be a bit tricky as the angles won’t be what you are used to. Use some lube and have her guide you in. This position gives her very good G-spot stimulation.

During intercourse, you can easily stimulate her clitoris by hand or with a vibrator. Alternately, she can do the same to herself – and you can watch!

The Clock Face

This one is a bit tricky to get right at first, but not really difficult to do once you get the hang of it. The man will probably need to roll slightly forward to get the angle right for penetration. A pillow under his hip or her rear will change the fit – experiment till you get something that works well. Pillows for your heads will also help and add comfort. You can bend at the waist and get your body closer to her than the dolls show.

For movement, the man can grasp her arm or the top edge of the bed with his downward arm (in the image his left hand on her right arm) and grab her with his upper hand (right hand in the image) in whatever way works – including holding her left arm or hand, or her left leg. This will allow him to thrust well.

The real beauty of this position is that it’s easy and comfortable to maintain for a long time. You can see each other clearly, and your right hand can reach her breasts. Both of her hands and your right hand can reach between your legs and do all manner of pleasing things. Either of you can clearly feel where your body ends and hers starts, which can be a great turn on. With a hand mirror and good lighting, you can each see the point of union as well, which can also be a big turn on.

If you ever have sex position marathons, this is a great resting position. This is also a good foreplay position – getting her aroused while you are inside of her. And of course, you can easily bring her to climax by hand in this position. If she is given to multiple orgasms, give her a few by hand and then have one together from thrusting.

[This post first appeared June 19, 2010.]

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Woman on top – with a twist

by The Generous Husband | Jun 27, 2009 | Sexuality

Female on top is the best position for most women when it comes to having an orgasm. This version is tweaked to make it even more likely she can get there.

You will lie on your back, and she will straddle you with her knees at about your hips. She lifts her body (a hand on your chest will help) and places your penis inside. After you are in place, take a moment to let her body adjust to you, and maybe make a couple of strokes to make sure everything is lubricated well. Then she lies forward so her chest is over yours, and she slow straightens her legs out, bring them first on top of your legs, and then between your legs as you part them for her. Now she moves not in a thrusting motion, but rather moving along your body – towards your head, then towards your feet. Your penis should stay fully inside her the whole time.

This position gives her control and contact that allows her to get the stimulation she needs. Because there is very little movement of the penis in the vagina, you should be able to last a very long time, while her legs inside of yours will make her vagina pleasingly tight.

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Frog legs

by The Generous Husband | Feb 28, 2009 | Sexuality

Try the missionary position with a minor change – her legs together, yours on the outside of hers. Her legs will be partly parted until you enter, then she puts them together. Some women find that this position more stimulating than regular missionary.