Have you ever asked, pleaded, or begged God to fix something about your wife, or change something about her?

Certainly, there have been things about my wife that needed to change, and things that needed to be “fixed”, but most all of the times I asked God to do this, He turned it on me, and on what I needed His help changing or fixing.  Often what He put before me had nothing to do with what I wanted Him to do in my bride – what’s up with that?

I have started to think that God does this because He is just waiting for a chance to deal with me about things, and when I am telling Him how much something about my bride needs to change, He has me in the perfect place to talk to me about my stuff. God is sneaky like that – at least with me.

But, it’s all good, because I have learned that God has done the same to my bride when she went to Him about me! :roll: