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So imagine with me that your wife was perfect in almost every way. She did what you would like, when and how you would like. And she did that everywhere except the bedroom. Perfect in every other way, but sex was rare, and poor when it happened.
Would you be all about all the ways she is so perfect, or would you be upset about your horrible sex life?
Your wife is the same way, but her priorities are different. If you do all kinds of things really well but fail to do the things she most wants, she will feel as you would if she were good at everything except sex.
The tricky part is most women don’t have one thing that matters as much as sex matters to most men. What’s more, every woman is different. But there are a couple of things that really matter to her, and if you get those right, she will be thrilled.
So how do you figure out what her couple of things are? Watch her. Ask her. Ask her friends. Or just go with trial and error and listen for feedback.
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