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Does your wife ask you freely for what she wants and needs from you?
If she has learned you’re stingy or will make fun of her, she will only come to you when she feels she absolutely must. On the other hand, if you have shown yourself to be a generous husband, she will make even her small requests known. Granted, the latter demands more from you, but it makes for a much better marriage for both of you.
What could you do to make your wife feel freer to ask of you?
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Some people simply don’t feel they should ask.
That was my ex-wife. She actually thought she shouldn’t ask. Confusing since I would ask if there as anything she needed, what could I do better, etc.
Come to find out, she considered that as evidence I wasn’t her soul-mate. Having to ask, or being asked for feedback actually sent her the message that we shouldn’t be together.
Someone not wanting to ask can have absolutely nothing to do with you. It can be all about how they see themselves and the relationship.
@Tony – True enough. Usually because someone scared them off at an early age. Kids ask for everything. If that causes them trouble, they back off.