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This is another of ChatGPT’s suggested article topics for making a heterosexual man a better husband. Today, “Making Time for Intimacy: Strategies for a Fulfilling Sexual Relationship”.
I was a bit frustrated that ChatGPT’s ten suggestions for wives didn’t include anything about sex. But at least what it offered for husbands is spot on. If you want good, regular sex, making time for it is your top concern.
If you’re under fifty, you may never feel too busy, or too tired, for sex. You can stop in the middle of something, have great sex, and go right back to what you were doing. Most women can’t do this. They need time to switch their brain to sex mode, and if that doesn’t happen, they won’t enjoy the sex. And having sex she doesn’t enjoy is a good way to put her off sex.
So when I say make time, I mean figure out how to make it fit into your wife’s busy life. Don’t ask at the last minute, give her some warning so she can start making the mental switch. Learn to give her downtime between being a mommy and being sexual. A great way to do this is to take on getting the kids to bed.
When you do have sex, don’t rush it. Feeling rushed will slow her down, or shut her down all together. I recently mentioned scheduled sex over on the XY Code. I know a lot of guys aren’t into that, but if it makes sex better for her, or means it happens more often, doesn’t that make it worth doing? Scheduled sex allows her to get her brain switched over to sex before she gets into bed, and that’s a good thing.
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