How to Keep the Romance Alive in Your Marriage

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Another of ChatGPT’s suggested article topics for making a heterosexual man a better husband was “How to Keep the Romance Alive in Your Marriage”.

I may not write about this often enough. While I’m a natural romantic, Lori has virtually no interest. Once, when she went to a woman’s retreat, I arranged for a rose to be left on her pillow. The rest of the ladies in her room nearly swooned; she thought it was “nice”. I still do romantic things for her, but I focus more on what makes her feel loved.

I have said being romantic is about showing her you think of her when she is not with you. So flowers when you are apart, or buying something you see because you know she would love it. What you do while you are together can also be romantic, such as asking her to join you to watch the sunset, gaze at the stars, or take a walk. Planning a surprise date or weekend away is a big hit with some women. And don’t forget loving words, be it a card, Post-It notes, or writing a message on the bathroom mirror with dry-erase markers.

Touch can also be romantic. From holding hands to passionate kissing to slow sex. Making date night a commitment will also earn you romance points.

Finally, romance is not a magic fix for when you have offended or wronged your wife. When you mess up, deal with it face on. Save romance for when things are going well, and you want to let her know you love her.

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