September Is Pleasure Your Mate Month

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So September is pleasure your mate month. As you can imagine all the sex toy companies are hyping it and there will be plenty of blog posts telling you how to give each other the ultimate orgasm. Now I’m all about giving your wife sexual pleasure; I have hundreds of posts about that. But today I want to talk about pleasures that can be had fully clothed. Sharing pleasure is a great way to make your marriage better. And making your marriage better will improve sexual pleasure for both of you.

EARS

Music is a powerful thing and sharing music connects us. A favourite song or group is a great thing for a couple. I recall a couple who told us about finding a new group they just loved. They got a CD and listen to it together every day for weeks. Going to a concert together is a great way to make powerful shared memories. If your musical tastes are dissimilar, see if you can find a different type of music you both enjoy.

EYES

Sharing the beauty of God’s world brings you close to Him and to each other. Nature up close and in person is wonderful, or you can find images or videos online. If you see a painting you both like, buy it and hang it where seeing it will bless you and remind you of finding it together. An art gallery is another good way to share beauty.

MOUTH

Do things to pleasure her tastebuds. Several times a month I make an indulgent Pots de Crème au Chocolat. It may be why my wife puts up with me the rest of the time! A box of fine chocolates is another option – share one each day. A favourite restaurant is fun if you dine out often. Or find a treat you both like and buy it from time to time. Serve it up on a nice plate or have it outside as you watch the sunset together.

NOSE

This is the one men often miss because most men have a weaker sense of smell than most women. Potpourri and scented candles aren’t silly, they give her olfactory pleasure. You may never get into that like she does, but you can still enjoy giving her that pleasure.

SKIN

Touch is powerful. It can be healing, stimulating, or relaxing. It causes our bodies to release chemicals that calm our minds. It can also bond us to the person who is touching us. You don’t have to know fancy massage to give your wife pleasuse by stroking her body. If you want to overwhelm her with this pleasure, get a good book, or try the video course from Melt Massage For Couples. Another great way to give her skin pleasure is a long hot bath. Be ready with a warm towel when she’s done. Whatever else you do, hug her often.

Giving your wife any kind of pleasure is wise. It makes her feel good, it connects the two of you, and it opens her to more pleasure. I suggest you spend the month looking for non-sexual ways to give your lady pleasure. Think of ways to mix and match, so you can pleasure multiple senses at once.

And, of course, keep giving her sexual pleasure as well. #PleasureYourMateMonth

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