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I want you to imagine trying to have an orgasm without any stimulation to the head of your penis. Not going to happen, is it? The head or glans of your wife’s clitoris is the same; if you don’t stimulate it, she’s not going to come. Period, hard stop.
A minority of women can climax during intercourse because their clitoris is close enough to their vagina that the movement provides enough stimulation to the clitoris. Either a woman is built this way or she isn’t – there is nothing she or you can do to change that. So if intercourse alone doesn’t get her there, it’s not your failure or because she’s uptight or not trying. It means she’s part of the majority who need direct clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm.
In the past, some uninformed folks told us the only “adult way” for a woman to have an orgasm was from intercourse. That was never true and today we know why it’s not true. But sadly some folks keep repeating this horrible lie and that causes all kinds of problems, arguments, and sexual frustration for women.
If you want your wife to want sex, you need to make sure she enjoys it. And if you want her to enjoy sex that’s going to be all about her clit. You can use your finger, your mouth, or a vibe, but do something!
A post worth reading:
PsyPost | Study finds knowledge is an important contributor to an individual’s sexual well-being ◄ Knowing your own body is more important than general knowledge bout sex. Probably also true for knowing her body!
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Spot on and enjoy her clit!!!!