A couple of days ago, I told you that Your Wife Is A Package Deal. And that includes sex.
As I mentioned, Lori is an INTJ. That means we will never have swinging from the chandelier sex. It means she won’t rave about how great sex was when it was great. And that’s okay. If those things had been critical to me, I would have married someone who is not INTJ.
Early on, I spent a lot of time and energy trying to change how she was sexually. Trying, actually, to make her something different than God made her. I frustrated both of us a great deal, and I suspect I did more to hurt our sex life than to improve it. Today I choose to work to understand who she is and to work with that.
Rather than telling your wife how you want her to be in bed, tell her what you want sexually. Then the two of you can work at ways of making that happen that don’t involve violating who God made her to me!
A post worth reading:
Dr. Corey Carlisle | True eros ◄ It’s more than we usually think.
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