Most men would like their wife to initiate sex once in a while. There are a couple of obstacles to this. First, she has to think of it. And second, she has to find a way to do it that doesn’t make her feel uncomfortable.
So how about putting a candle (real or LED) on your bedroom dresser with the understanding that when she lights it, she’s up for sex?
She will see it, which serves as a reminder. And it’s a non-threatening way to indicate she is available. I know it’s not what you fantasize about her doing to initiate sex, but wouldn’t it be way better than nothing?
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Yeah, like my wife’s gonna think THAT’s a good idea. When it comes to sex, she’d rather curse the darkness than light a single candle.
We have used your coins on the dresser method. We used buttons. Found a dish with three sections: hers, mine, and ours.
It is an low-key indicator of either my interest or her disinterest. Nice!